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Sammy & Sam’s Wonderful White Horse Reception

Sammy and Sam got married in Winchester Guildhall, just across the road from the bus station where Sam first set eyes on the girl of his dreams ~ there’s more to that story, but it’s not for me to share 😉

For their reception they chose The White Horse Hotel in the centre of Romsey, and what a great choice – a fabulous setting with great service and attention to detail. The White Horse has been a coaching Inn for over 600 years – for more information CLICK HERE

The wedding party arrived to brilliant sunshine and a drinks reception in the courtyard and the smiles never stopped.

Here’s a quick video I’ve put together from my snaps on the day – please remember I’m not a photographer or a videographer, this is just for fun.

Check out some fabulous photo’s by Sammy and Sam’s photographer – the brilliant Glen Jevon ~ see some proper pictures from Glen HERE.
Find out more about Glen HERE

and one more dodgy snap from me of the lovely Sammy and Sam.

Another FREE Wedding Fair!

In my last post I offered free tickets for the Southampton Guildhall Wedding fair on Thursday 27th September, well here’s another FREE Wedding Fair I’ll be at.

Jen & Martin’s Wedding (2)

I first met Jen and Martin at a wedding fair way back in April 2010. Over a year later they contacted me and I went to their place for a chat and they booked me to play at their reception which finally happened last month ~ 28 months after that first chat.

They actually got married in 2010 but wanted to renew their vows and have a big party for their family and friends, so that’s what they did on a beautiful Summer’s day at Marwell. I was booked to provide the evening entertainment which was held in the marquee at the rear of the hall in the walled garden, it’s a lovely setting right in the centre of the zoo – you may well have walked past it not realising it was even there.

It was a great evening with many special moments including a dance-off, an “In The Night Garden” dance for Jen and Martin’s lovely daughter Jasmine, a dance for Nana, and Jen seeing her Dad dance for the first time in her life!

Here’s a video I cobbled together from clips and photo’s I snapped on the night ~ as always please remember I’m not a photographer or a videographer and this is something I just try and do if I have time, it’s not a service I supply or charge for, it’s just a bit of fun.

Here’s one last picture of a fabulous couple … and their very happy DJ

With Military Precision ~ revisited

Back at the end of April I posted about a wedding I did CLICK HERE

Here are some pictures the Bride sent me recently, thanks Jenny!

Georgina’s Wedding Blog Update

You may remember a while ago I posted the first four in a series of Wedding Blogs from a lady called Georgina (comedy writer and actress Anna Morris), if you missed them CLICK HERE

I’m pretty sure the wedding was this month – I wonder if it will actually go ahead (yes I know it’s all a spoof, but how will it end?) I believe Georgina / Anna is currently performing at the Edinburgh fringe. Anyway, here are the latest 3 videos in the series …

Video Blog 5
Georgina visits her wedding venue

Video Blog 6
Georgina and Simon’s present list

Video Blog 7
Find our what happened when Eleanor, Mother of the Bridegroom, ordered the cake(s).

Jen & Martin (1)

Saturday night at one of my favourite venues with a couple I first met in April 2010 ~ I am so lucky to be able to do what I do!


The venue was Marwell, the couple were Jen and Martin, their first dance was to Adele’s “Make You Feel My Love”.

More on both this weekends weddings very soon.

More Than Words

First dances ~ what would you choose ~ what did you have?

Some of you may know I frequently stage a “Guess The First Dance” competitions and invite the guests to fill in a card with their answer, I then find any correct guesses and the Bride and Bridegroom draw out a winner for a special prize.

Nobody got this one a couple of weeks ago, what a classic!

How Much Is A Disco?

Most of the enquiries I receive ask just that one question – “how much is a disco?”. Couples frequently ask for a quote before talking or meeting with me. This is very difficult because my service usually isn’t just a ‘four hour’ type of operation. I’m often on site from a couple of hours before the ceremony until at least an hour after the finish of the evening party. 14 hour days aren’t uncommon. Price isn’t an easy thing to discuss without me knowing exactly what is expected and helping the couple realise that I can probably help them achieve an experience way beyond what they’re expecting.

That 14 hour day is, of course, after I’ve already done the 20 to 30 hours of preparation, which includes meetings, planning, location visits, communication with other suppliers, correspondence, phone calls, emails, buying additional music, providing insurance and of course equipment maintenance!


Communicating this well in an email seems to be almost impossible, and over the phone isn’t much better. In a meeting, couples start to really ‘get it’ and begin to understand the importance of the entertainment as a considerable percentage of the overall success of their wedding day. Once they see that value, the percentage of the overall wedding day budget starts to make sense and my service becomes a very viable investment because I offer great value for money.

Many couples choose to spend hundreds of pounds on chair covers with beautiful sashes to match their colour scheme, but they are reluctant to spend even the same amount on a DJ to get people up from those same chairs to dance!

I guess the problem is that many people have never seen a good DJ and they think we are all the same. The truth is anyone can be a wedding DJ ~ YOU could be a wedding DJ! There are no exams to pass, no qualifications to secure, even things like insurance aren’t legally required, so many people DJ as a hobby not as a professional business and just do what they do. They have limited experience, training and skill, they just do it because they like it and can make a few quid on the side.

I’m not cheap, and there are a lot of reasons for that. In fact I’m one of the most expensive wedding DJs in the area, and I usually work around 30 weddings per year at prices that mean I can offer my clients a totally unique and personalised service. People hire me to ensure that their wedding will be unlike any other celebration that they and their guests have ever been to. They book me to ensure that their day flows perfectly, that their guests don’t leave as soon as the DJ starts and that everyone feels like they are part of something truly special and memorable.

So that’s why I offer a free, no-obligation to anyone who wants to check me out. More information can be found on my website CLICK HERE Why not get in touch and we can get together over a cuppa and you can tell me about your dream wedding celebration.

Why I love my job …

I was at Marwell Wildlife on Friday for an all-day wedding and then The Bartley Lodge Hotel on Saturday – both weddings were great fun, so obviously I had a fabulous time too. But I love every day!

Yesterday (Tuesday) I spent the morning …
editing a video for the Bride and Bridegroom from Saturdays wedding
and then I had my weekly Skype with my colleague David in Cyprus.
Next I met up with 16 other local DJ’s from the Hampshire DJ Alliance for a networking lunch.
After that 3 of us continued the brainstorming for a couple more hours.
Finally I met with a couple who I’m providing Master of Ceremonies and music from drinks reception to party in September.

… and today I went to the beach with my lovely wife – well everyone deserves a day off sometime!

Love it!

I haven’t been quiet …

… I’ve just been very busy!

Sorry I haven’t posted for a while, so many things to do and so little time to do it all. It’s been a week of admin, meetings and planning. I’ve had meetings with two very special couples who’s weddings are imminent and I’m so excited about them – you’d think it was me who was getting married!

I don’t think I’ve mentioned my FaceBook page ~ “The Party DJ”. If you use FaceBook I’d really value your support, please give it a “like” and share it with your friends 🙂

Finally, here’s another video I haven’t shared here before. It’s from a wedding I did back in April for lovely Sharon and Dave.